UNDECIDED

I’ll start off by saying, before writing this article there were a lot of unsettled thoughts and questions I kept asking myself; what if it’s boring? 😱 Would people actually want to read this? 😰 Am I taking a good topic? 😨 Well I don’t seem to care anymore, the best way you could learn is by giving yourself a try, over and over again. I hope who ever reading would get a lot from this, I need you to give every sentence a thought.

I picked this subject because many-a-times we find ourselves in this situation, not certain, having two minds about a particular thing or not having to reach a decision 😣. It sure is awful at such situations but is it really best to leave it undecided? The truth is there’s always an answer to it. If you’re torn out about something it’s either your choices are similar or you’re just too afraid to pick one. When you allow fear govern what you want to do, you’ll find out you remain on the same spot. Ask yourself, ‘what is the probability of success for each option I’m faced with?’  Including holding on for a while or doing nothing? What exactly do I have to lose? Is it really worth it? Building up your self confidence helps, so that even in the midst of whatever anyone says you’ll have your ground. Discuss with a friend, this doesn’t mean the person should choose for you but help you in deciding.

“Indecision is often worse than wrong action.” – Henry Ford. Does it mean wrong decisions are better than indecision? 😒

Well, Nothing last forever, every decision that you take is temporary, it only opens a new door to the next one. You taking a decision will help you know if it’s the wrong one or not, that’s especially when you’re not sure which is which, you learn from your mistakes and how to be better. But when you know it’s a wrong decision, why choose it? 😏

On Christianity, why exactly is it hard to decide to follow Jesus? To some, on reading this you've tuned off, probably no longer interested😟 but you’re set out to gain so much more on His side. There’s this story I heard sometime ago about a man who was trying to decide whether to follow Jesus or the Devil and between them was a fence. He couldn’t make up his mind and thought to himself, well, I’ll stay on the fence. Turns out the fence belongs to the devil😈, and he came to claim it. There are only two options; the good and the bad, you are either on one side or the other, there’s no sitting on the fence.

Make the right choices today!😇

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           - Ubani May